How to suck others to your sphere of influence .
There is a way to simultaneously reduce resistance and increase your persuasiveness.
Different people are hardwired differently. Some are more internally referenced than others.
On the other side of the coin are individuals who are internally veered, who are more disconnected from external feedback. They know who they are and don't need anyone or anything to define them.
Its rare for anyone to be exceedingly internally or externally referenced. With the right handling, pressure, framing you can make them lean out into the world, regardless of how internally veered they are. Obviously the more externally veered they are, the more authority you have of them.
You must position yourself in such a way that they covet your validation and authority, they feel the burden to satisfy you. The more dependent they are the more authority you can exercise!
Common examples could be expertise, rank, connections, money, access to a resource etc are just some ways you can suck them into that weaker role of influence.
You are not restricted to the above examples. Catch yourself in daily life, wanting external validation from total strangers who have none of these attributes. You can create authority and even more authority out just by putting yourself in a better position of authority.
Work their internal realities.
Redefine anything they think, say or do as a manifestation of the identities you want them to assume. By altering the interpretation or meaning of external feedback, you are altering their internally generated subjective experiences.
Since an individual cannot see himself apart from what he sees externally from the world, people and external manifestations? Modifying the feedback, directly impacts his self concepts and internal worlds.
To end, the objective is to make the subject become more external to suck him out of his internally set restrictions and mechanisms towards your sphere authority.
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