Mom Without A Car
My husband and I once owned three motor vehicles, a jet boat and two snowmobiles. We were always paying insurance, getting tune-ups and repairs, and buying fuel. Oh how I used to dread waiting in that rinky-dink motor vehicle office getting our license plates renewed. When I think back on the math, I estimate we spent over five thousand dollars a year on our cars!
Everything changed when I got pregnant and had twins two years ago. Our children, a boy and a girl are now the center of our lives. John took a job in Chicago for more money, and we moved our family into a luxury townhouse in the Meadows off Racine. And although our new three bedroom condominium is exceptionally beautiful, with a fireplace and two balconies, we have only street parking, and sadly we were forced to sell all but one car. Obviously that meant no car for me, as John would of course use the remaining vehicle for his daily commute.
On one hand, this was a terrific relief; now I could stay home with our children and really focus on being their mother. My husband surprised me with a beautiful twin stroller so I could take them out, and we could explore the city together when he was away at work.
But on the other hand, this was all slightly terrifying. What if something happened? What if I needed to go somewhere fast? For young mothers, cars are more than just a convenience theyre shelter in a rain storm, and security at night.
I wasnt going to be another stay-at-home mother.
It was time to get smart about the situation. As a responsible adult, I knew I needed an improved urban methodology - my management training taught me that I should implement any available improvements now, to make my evolution to public transit easier and shorter. A world of buses, taxi companies and the mysterious L train, with lines that converge in a giant downtown "traffic circle" called The Loop, awaited me. Ive wanted to see a baseball game at Wrigley Field since childhood, and now I knew it was possible. I just needed to familiarize myself with how.
My action menu might be helpful to you, if you are adjusting to life in a big city without a car.
1. Safety First: Plan for emergencies in advance post all medical phone numbers, fire, police, relatives on the wall beside the home phone, and program a special list of these critical numbers into your cell phone.
2. Post public transit resources and maps on the wall by the front door. Be sure to post a bus schedule. Its been my experience that buses are generally on time and knowing those times is very helpful.
3. On your personal computer, find a decent local search program. Your city will probably have evolved its own such software, and this might be worth investigating, but the best local search services harness Yellow Pages data. I use Poynt (http://mypoynt.com) on Microsoft Live Messenger to find all necessary staples for myself and my children within a five block radius of our apartment. Plus Poynt has a handy map that lets me plan a route and search for cost variables at different parts of the journey. Its a trip.
4. Meet your neighbors. We live in a very green community and because Im always ambling about with a car, our neighbors see me as active environmentalist. Most of these folks have also shunned cars and use public transportation to commute to their offices. The message board in the lobby contains a car pool, as well as environmentally safe dry cleaning promotional coupons, and other green services (including a woman doing cloth diaper cleaning!) and grocery orders and deliveries services.
5. Buy a backpack. This is probably the best piece of advice that every young mother already knows. Theres nothing handier than having a back pack full of toys, wipes, books, medicine, groceries, spare keys, lipstick and water. I have a mock Volkswagen emblem sewn on the pocket of mine, and thats kind of how Ive come to think of this apparel.
Last but not least, remember, for extraordinary out of the loop travels, you can always take a taxi, and still be ahead of the game.
About the Author: Tanya Blaise lives in Chicago and uses Poynt, http://mypoynt.com to map the galaxy outside her condominium.
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